I’m really reaching into the archives for this post. The pictures aren’t the best quality (pretty sure most of them were taken with a disposable camera) and I don’t have much in the way of travel tips for the Greek islands. But the story is one that, for the purposes of this blog, must be told.
I grew up in the southeastern United States and John grew up in the southwest of Australia. It’s pretty crazy to us that we met about halfway in between the places of our births. The Greek islands had always been a dream destination for me. I have no idea why, but when friends began planning a trip to Crete in the autumn of 2004 I jumped at the chance to join them. John, on the other hand, was finishing up two and a half years of work and travel in Europe, with the tiny town of Plakias being his final destination before visiting relatives and then heading back home to Australia.
I’ve mentioned this story before when I posted about our destination wedding a couple of years ago, but the place that brought us all there is a really awesome hostel that both John and one of my friends had visited before. I had no idea what to expect and was pretty much just along for the journey and promise of sunshine and beaches – definitely not in the mindset that I would meet the person who would later become my husband. The morning of our arrival, all of John’s dorm roommates had departed and he was told by the owner that he would get a surprise that afternoon.
- It’s not often that a couple is lucky enough to have had someone snap a photo of them in the midst of one of their first conversations. We still don’t remember what we talked about this night but it must have been good.
The surprise being our little group, fresh from a couple of flights from New York. I remember immediately thinking that John had nice eyes on meeting him but we didn’t speak much because we were whisked away to the little welcoming ceremony where everyone gets a shot of the local spirit, Raki, which is anise-flavoured and very potent. We also learned a bit more about the hostel and how many repeat visitors it receives – not surprising considering the beautiful surrounds.
That night everyone who was staying there went to dinner together. I was one of the last people to arrive at the table and none of my friends had saved me a seat so I headed to some open chairs and ended up sitting right across from my attractive roommate. This was our first opportunity to talk but I called it a night early that evening because of jetlag.
The next morning I clumsily stubbed my toe in the communal bathrooms and ended up bleeding with my foot in the sink to rinse the cut. Who happened to come in at that time but John, who was insistent to have a look at the wound. It was quite deep so I was reluctant but he was quick to assure me that he “liked gross things.” He went off to find a bandage and returned with some liquid plaster and a shot of Raki from Chris, the owner.
“You’re supposed to drink one and use the other on your foot, I’m not sure which,” he said. I think that was the first time he made me laugh.
This post will become much too long if I get into all of the conversations and details of the time we spent together after that. Plakias is an easy place to be. You have copious amounts of Raki and cheap (but very tasty!) Mythos beer, delicious local food, several beaches and friendly people to keep you busy doing not too much. We did the “river walk” with friends, which I highly recommend for anyone visiting. It’s an easy hike where you wade through rivers and under waterfalls, ending up high on a hill at a restaurant that serves the best Moussaka I’ve ever had in my life (if you choose, I believe there can be several ends to the trail). Such an easy place to fall in love!
Since most of the photos here are from Santorini, you might be wondering how that magical place fits in. Crete was meant to be just one part of my European holiday. My friends and I were due to meet more friends in Munich for Oktoberfest. We had accommodation booked and tickets to see Slayer as well. And after that a few of us were headed to Cinque Terre in Italy before flying home. Luckily I got another crack at both Oktoberfest and Slayer (even meeting the lead singer!) last year because I was a terrible friend and ditched the rest of the trip to stay in Crete with John. We made plans to head to Santorini for a few days before we had to part ways.
What a gorgeous place! We relaxed for the next few days there, enjoying the beaches, delicious wine and food and the wonderful ambience of the island. I don’t often say that I would like to return to a place but I sincerely hope we get a chance to go back to Santorini one day. I’m seeing a lot of posts going around at the moment about Greece and why people should travel there despite the current European crisis. If you have any plans to visit and are worried, please don’t cancel them. I haven’t seen any other parts of Greece but Crete and the rest of the islands are spectacular.
As for the rest of the story, you may already know it. At least the important parts. What started as a travel romance eventually led to marriage. We’re going on eight years together so who says travelling relationships have to just be flings? When I think about just how many things had to happen to put us together in that same dorm room way down there at the very bottom of Europe – just consider the odds for a moment – I am reminded of what John calls the “happy randomness of travel.” This particular journey certainly changed my life.
Do you have a travel love story?













This is not just a blog for travellers. We hope to inspire our readers, whether they’ve visited dozens of countries or barely make it to the next town once a year. We're John and Andrea, a couple of thirty-something travellers and expats. Our travel style is laid-back luxe and we are constantly seeking out the best experiences each destination has to offer.
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Lovely to read the story between you both. As you said; who says you can have ‘proper holiday romances’
Thanks, Toni – so glad you enjoyed it! =)
What a fantastic story! It’s nice to read about those moments where you connect with people. Seems like you two really hit it off!
In the end, I think this just goes to show that travel is really about the experiences and the people we meet and not just the places. They only serve as the backdrop and fill in the gaps to make our travels even more incredible.
I’ve definitely always felt that travel was more about the people you meet and connections you make than the destinations – well said! =)
What a beautiful story
I love reading love stories that were shaped by travel. Much more interesting than meeting in a bar, right?
I certainly think so, haha =)
I love reading about travel relationships that last! I’m American, my fiancé’s English, we met in Singapore, traveled around Southeast Asia, and got engaged in Paris. People didn’t think we’d last because we met abroad but like you said, not all traveling relationships have to be flings! Hardest part’s trying to figure out where to have the wedding and honeymoon
I agree, Edna – deciding where to get married was a tough call because it was certain to exclude one side of our families from the festivities. In the end we had to just go with the choice that was most convenient for us.
Such an awesome story!
PS – I REALLY miss RAKI. Best drink ever
Thanks, Drew – it certainly goes down easy, Raki – maybe a bit too easy
What a sweet story! Kali and I started traveling after we met (and we’ve actually known each other since 6th grade!), so no cute travel love stories for me to share. I’ve always wanted to visit Santorini, though! One of these days….
Wow – sixth grade! I think that’s really cute on its own…I haven’t even known any of my friends that long!
Aaww that’s so lovely and a vote for holiday romances! Totally agree about Greece and Santorini – wonderful and romantic!
Thanks so much, Natasha =)
I smiled the whole way through this, Andrea.
There’s something about knowing the good ending that makes the story even more enjoyable.
SO glad you and John met. I speak from experience that Aussie blokes are the best.
Wishing you many, many happy years together.
Thank you so much, Krista – and glad you enjoyed it! =)
. . enjoyed this tale of yours. Know these two, and several other islands well – Crete is a real favorite.
I’d really love to get back to Crete and explore it a bit more – such a huge island and I only got to see one tiny part!
Awww Andrea! You’re so lucky — not only that you found John, but that you have such a romantic story about how you met. And I sort of love those photos!
Thanks so much, Abby – I love old photos too – even if they aren’t as crisp as the ones I take on a digital camera now.
This is a beautiful love story Andrea, thank you for sharing it. I know Santorini is a very romantic island and host to many love stories
Thank you =) I really hope to get back there someday…
So nice to hear about how you guys met, love that it was half-way for both of you. I also met my husband while traveling. It seems it’s not as uncommon as I previously thought.
Once I started travel blogging I met lots of other people who had met that way – at the time you’re starting out though it feels a little crazy – at least from the perspective of your friends and family!
I really enjoyed reading this story!! I really love the 3rd photo.
One of my favourite parts of travelling is meeting people along the way
Mine too, Tiffany – thanks so much! =)
I love your story! I think you already know how Andy and I met through Twitter. It’s amazing how everything can just line up sometimes. Like you said, the chances of you both ending up in the same dorm room are tiny. It still blows my mind that Andy just happened to see my tweet for website help, which eventually led to us getting married. I’m so happy for you guys, and I really hope our paths cross one of these days! (And yes, Greece, especially Santorini, is gorgeous!)
I do, and I love your story too =) Hope to see you guys sometime soon as well!
I am not sure why somebody decided to cut onions near my laptop!
This was a great post Andrea!
Aww, haha, thanks, Ryan! =)
Sweet story! Don’t know either of you at all but I kind of love the shot of you meeting…that’s so cool! My relationship w/my husband started as an office romance, another one of those things that are usually “just flings.” Here we are, 12 years later!
Thanks, Laura! An office romance is definitely its own kind of sweet =)
What a great story. I have a few good “travel love” memories, but none ended in marriage
How nice – this was my first and only…I think meeting on the road is super-romantic! =)
You guys have such a great story! And you know ours is also travel-related
I feel the same way about all the little pieces that had to fall into place to end up with Rodolfo and me in the same class and actually talking to each other considering I hadn’t yet talked to any other Chilean classmates.
I think it’s so cute that you two met in class – I’m sure you both would have gotten those butterflies in the stomach feelings before each one – reminds me of high school!
They say that the best stories are those that stem from reality and they were right. It almost seems magical; from the toe being cut to the the location this all took place. You really should write a book based on yourselves. Would be an interesting read. I am so very happy for the both of you. And envious of your magical meeting.
Aww, thanks so much, Sherry! =)
Great story! Thanks for sharing. It is… Inspiring
Thanks, Erik! =)
Such a gorgeous story, guys. And what better place for the setting of the story, than the Greek Islands.
– and I can completely agree with you that travelling to Greece now is no different from any other time.
I’ve just returned from my 5th trip to the Greek Islands – no love-of-my-life story like you two have, I’m afraid
It’s so sad that travellers are hesitating because of the economic crisis. Greece is just as wonderful as it always has been…and, as your story confirms, the perfect place to fall in love
I really hope we get to go back soon – thanks, Cherina! =)
A remarkable post, and sweet! That’s really great you have all these photos still. All the best to the two of you!
ohhhh i loved this post !!!! it is so cool to see how yall met given my story is sort of similar (except it was not somewhere as wonderful as greece…it was vegas haha)
im excited to meet yall sometime soon!
How cool to meet in Vegas! I don’t know the story but you’ll have to tell it when we finally meet =)
Awww, I love this story. Just made my hairs stand on end as I read – the amount of things that had to happen for you two to be there together. And that you knew staying with him was important enough to ditch your friends makes me really happy. Bless you both!
Thank you, Vicky! We both feel really lucky =)
Yay, for love! Great romance story! Thanks for sharing the sweet story of how you meet.
Thanks, Mary – I enjoyed you guys’ story too =)
Loved reading this post. It’s like a good chick flick, but real! Haha, I’m such a girl:)
Hope you guys have many happy years to come!
Thanks so much, Sofie! =)
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